About Life Here and There

                                                                       Winning hearts ❤️❤️   It was the day that Siya had been waiting for past 6 months. These 6 months were nothing less than a Bollywood masala movie. It had all the essentials- The love at first sight.... the decision of getting married,...... fighting with parents,... the family clashes as two different communities were coming together,... the grand wedding,... the song and dance saga,.... the elaborate and lavish punjabi rituals..... God !!it had all . Other than being excited and extremely happy for getting married to the love of her life Rahul, Siya was also nervous and a little scared. Managing a prestigious job along with new responsibilities was giving her the jitters. All Siya wanted was to be happy, for everything to go w...

Hi people!! Here I am with my first attempt to help you all (if I can ) with the greatest challenge that we as parents face today-“ BACHCHE SUNTE HI NAHI “ !! Be it any age group.. any matter— they just won’t listen to us. And on top of it- cherry on the cake.. they would argue back and answer you back- jab dekho gussa karte rehte ho.. !! Heartbreak right !! I can completely, totally understand.  So what to do ??  Here are 5 ways to make your kids listen to you: Listening —As parents we need to listen and listen from heart. Hear out all that they feel, they think, without giving your special comments, without judging. Simply hear out. And try to be in their shoes. We need to get down to their level and think like them to understand them. Without that there can’t be any discussions but only arguments.  Team Work —We need to work with them as a team. When there are awards you both win but when there’s failure you both fail. A very renowned psychologist gave th...

After 11 years of marriage, two kids, satisfied in laws, a happy life, here I am still lost in finding myself. Back then girls were not encouraged so much to take careers professionally. Marrying the daughter was the ultimate responsibility that like all other fathers, mine also fulfilled efficiently, silently crushing all my dreams of doing something in life. But as all say where there is a will there is a way. Applies perfectly !! So here I am to share with you my experiences with life and everything. I know I will relate with lot of ladies like me who are selflessly busy in household and kids being this  perfect wife, perfect mom, perfect daughter in law but still somewhere that longing to do something comes up now n then. So who all agree plz like my page and I’ll keep coming up with all the situations along with their solutions to make your life easy and smooth and interesting too.